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Collar

I can’t tell you how many times a day I find myself touching my collar. It’s a habit now, good or bad, well…I think it’s a good thing. Whenever I am stressed, I find that I have my hand on my collar. It comforts me and reminds me of Master. And when I think about it, my collar is a lot like Master. I love to feel its weight upon me; it’s strong and secure; yet flexible as needed. It has its hard places, but it has its soft ones too. I love to feel it wrapped around me, just as I love to be wrapped up in Master. I never really thought about how similar it they were until today, but the more I think about my collar the more I realize how deeply I am His. So for me, my collar is more than a symbol of my submission to my Master, it is a representation of Master Himself. My strength, security, restraint, and my comfort, my Master is all these things and so much more.

Nipple Clamps

http://dennisnajee.blogspot.com/2008/10/nipple-clamps.html

Nipple clamps are a wonderful way to enhance a sexual encounter. There are many forms that people turn to. In my previous post, I mentioned one of the simplest and least expensive; the clothespin.

The sensitivity of one’s nipple varies from person-to-person. Some really love the feeling of having them “crushed” under the pressure of the clamp. Others are not so fond of this activity. It is important to experiment with your one to see where the limits fall.

If you enter any sex shop, you will find many different types of clamps available. If there is a BDSM section, the selection will be rather large. There are tweezer, Japanese clover, and forcep clamps. Not only are these available, but some have chains attached for increase pleasure. This offers the ability to lead him or her around via the clamps or connect to a collar. The choice you make will depend a great deal on your budget.

Spending a lot of money on clamps is not necessary. The clothespin offers an excellent example. You can also use hair pins or clips used on potato chip bags. These items are available at the local Dollar Store. In fact, most people have them laying around the house.

A final option is to head to your local home building center. Outside of the sex shop, this is a favorite of BDSMer. For clamps, there are a variety to choose from. If you are into extreme, alligator clamps found in the electrical section are inexpensive. One can also go for the vice clamps in the hardware section.

As you can see, there are lots of choices with nipple clamps. Whichever you choose, the idea is to stimulate the nipple so that it stands out proudly. Attach the clamp to it providing some pain for a short period of time. Once the nipple numbs up, you will be able to experiment in your play. For me, I find great pleasure in the removal of the clamps since the blood rushing back in causes a second way of pain (this is especially true with the alligator clamps).

A final note, remember not to leave the clamps on for too long. When participating in BDSM, it is critical to not cut off the blood flow to any part of the body for an extended period of time. This could result in injury.

reprinted with permission

http://dennisnajee.blogspot.com/2008/10/nipple-clamps.html

Spankings, paddlings and the Like

Okay so I have to admit that I am not one that enjoys paddling. I know that it goes with the territory of being a slave and that it’s part on my life now, but it still terrifies me. I have spent the last few weeks trying to think about it in a different way, in a more sexual way, and thought that I had made enough progress in my head to handle it.

I was wrong. What’s worse is that so far Master has only been playing and not doing anything serious, just a swat or two and that’s all. Now, I will say that about the only thing enjoyable about the whole thing is the mischievous glint in Master’s eye. I just wish I could get that look without a smack on the ass about to happen. I know that it’s going to happen I am just having a difficult time with finding a way that I can accept it. Well, I shouldn’t say accept it because I do accept it; I just don’t like it. It brings up WAY too many memories from my past, and even though I have tried to separate the past from the present sometimes that’s just not possible. I can do well for a bit; but when it’s time to sleep memories surface and torment me.

Now, nightmares and anxiety is nothing new for me; as a matter of fact, I have a “good” night’s sleep about twice a week. And that’s a good week; I think good needs to be better defined…lol. Anyway, I haven’t slept very well in a couple of days, and I don’t know exactly how to proceed with getting my head in the best place. Although a part of me would just like to run and hide from the spanking, pain thing, there is the larger part that wants desperately to please my Master, and I know the the pain spanking thing in a significant part of that. But I wonder if I can ever get my head to not go to the past when it happens and handling it from there. And once that train of thought enters my head then on top of old memories, I get anxiety attacks over the present.

Now, logically, I know that **okay probably shouldn’t say know, but fairly confident** that I wouldn’t be released because I just couldn’t handle it, but the illogical part of me runs that through my head over and over. Don’t you just hate it when your mind goes over and over things like that? It’s just not right.

So anyway, for today, I’m trying to breathe, and remember that it’s a process and we are only at the beginning. And boy, do I have a long way to go.

Is It Fighting Back…or…Letting Go

Daily we have issues and problems that are beyond our control. We are told to stand up and fight back. But what is this “thing” we are suppose to be fighting. It’s an entity that there is no really fighting. A one-sided struggle in which there is no winner. It’s a battle within ourselves that we fight. This struggle can lead to an overwhelming internal battle. This battle for me at times is intense and since it lacks an outward focus, I generally internalize everything. So why when I don’t like my life being so out of control, do I crave to give up what little control that I do have? I don’t really know but here are a few of my thoughts that come to mind.

I love being tied up. I think, don’t know, but think that it’s the ability to feel and struggle against an outside entity..ie the rope…which focuses my internal battle on an outward object in a safe manner that doesn’t harm anyone…least of all me. I think that it’s also the one time where it’s not so such giving up control, but giving into the fact that there is no control. It’s an illusion of the mind, and by letting go of that illusion if only for a time allows for the release of all the pent up emotions that have been internalized in that illusion of having things under control. I don’t know if that makes any sense but it’s just my thoughts.

And as I struggle with my own thoughts, emotions, and issues in my life and the more out of control that I feel the more that I crave that time when I am able to give into it and release everything. To let go of all illusions, and let’s face it…it’s a release in more than one way.

Dealing with Difficult People and Situations

Just like anywhere else, there are always challenges that one faces when you interact with people. Even in the lifestyle there can be people who like nothing better than to tear someone apart. It amazes me that O/one can complain about the treatment people receive when an “outsider” learns of involvement in the lifestyle and then can ridicule and harass someone else for bringing up their views and opinions on the lifestyle. This is a broad lifestyle and there is no one way to live it.

There is no one way to be a Master or one way to be a slave. This is not a one size fit all life or lifestyle. Enjoy the diversity that this life can bring into your life. There are some great people in it.

What does it mean to be a slave?

So i’m sitting here this morning trying to think of something to write and so i’ve decided to write on what i think it means to be a slave or well, how i view my slavery. Right or wrong, well, it is what it is and as always i have a long way to go as i am still new to my servitude.

i am continually amazed at how natural my transition has been. It’s as natural as breathing for me which is something of a surprise to me as i have always been in control of everything in my life since the age of 17. i thought that it would be more difficult to give up areas of control but once i started down this path in life it was easy and natural to give up that control. Of course it helps emensely that i found a wonderful Master who accepted my service.

As a slave, i have no rights but those that my Master grants me. This includes…well, everything. The right to His time is not mine, if He wishes to spend time with someone else, there is nothing that is my right to do. If He wishes not to speak to me, again, it is not my right to demand to be spoken to. If there are thing that i am uncomfortable with, it is not my right to refuse. It is not my right to be used, either sexually or in a domestic capacity. Everything that i am granted is at the will of my Master.

At times, this can be a very difficult thing to deal with, especially on those days when one craves notice and attention and none is forth coming. But it is at those time when one must redirect one’s perception of your world. And there is the key, it is no longer “your” world, but His world that matters. Keeping your focus on that one thing can greatly increase not only your happiness but His as well. Because a happy Master will make for a happy slave, just as much as a happy slave will make for a happy Master.

Okay, not sure my title fits anymore but this is where my mind rambled today.

161 Condom Slogans

1) Cover your stump before you hump

2) Before you attack her, wrap your whacker
3) Don’t be silly, protect your Willie
4) When in doubt shroud you spout
5) Don’t be a loner, cover your boner
6) You can’t go wrong, if you shield your dong
7) If your not going to sack it, go home and whack it
If you think she’s spunky, cover your monkey
9) It will be sweeter if you wrap your peter
10) If you slip between her thighs, condomize
11) She won’t get sick if you wrap your dick
12) If you go into heat, package your meat
13) While your undressing Venus, dress up your penis
14) When you take off her pants and blouse, suit up your mouse
15) Especially in December, gift wrap your member
16) Never ever deck her, with an unwrapped pecker
17) Don’t be a fool, vulcanize your tool
18) The right selection, is to protect your erection
19) Wrap it in foil, before you check her oil
20) A crank with armor, will never harm her
21) If you really love her, wear a cover
22) Don’t make a mistake, cover your snake
23) Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener
24) If you can’t shield your rocket, leave it in your pocket
25) No glove, no love
26) If you think she’ll sigh, cover old one eye
27) Even If she’s eager, protect her beaver
28) No one likes a horses ass, protect yourself at climax
29) Shield her from the hunt until you shoot her in the cunt
30) Avoid a frown, contain your clown
31) Harness the pygmy man before entering the bearded clam
32) Constrain the little head before you stick it in the shed
33) Put a condom on your dink before you dart it in her sink
34) The weasel you must surround before you please her on the ground
35) Cloak the joker before you poke her
36) Encase that torch before you paint her porch
37) Cape your throbber before you bob her
38) After detection sheath your erection
39) Before you penetrate hide your magistrate
40) Don’t surprise her plug your Geyser
41) Cover that lumber before you pump her
42) Protect her wrinkle before you sprinkle
43) She won’t bristle if you wrap your whistle
44) House your noodle then release your strudel
45) Put your dog in the pound and make her yelp like a hound
46) Shelter your jerky then nab that turkey
47) Cage that snake then shake and bake
48) Cover your peter it will be much neater
49) Coat that Labrador then allow him to explore
50) It’s always funky to cage your monkey
51) It won’t be funny with a coatless dummy
52) It won’t be fun with an unwrapped thumb
53) It’s not much money to catch your honey
54) Don’t be a fool cover your tool
55) Hood that match then scratch that thatch
56) Stitch that switch then itch her niche
57) Wrap that tool to catch the drool
58) It ain’t no jibe to protect her hive
59) Contain that sputum before you use him
60) Restrain your log then plow her bog
61) Glove your pecker before you check her
62) Coat that slimmer before you prime her
63) Condomize then womanize (or sodomize)
64) Cover old pete then grind her meat
65) Guard your peter before you meet her
66) Check your list before you tryst
67) Wrap your bate before you mate
68) Can your worm before you squirm
69) Cover your pipe you dumb ass wipe
70) Contain your lizard then tickle her gizzard
71) Bag the mole then do her hole
72) Cuff your carrot before you share it
73) Jail your number then call the plumber
74) Cover your vein then drive her insane
75) Wrap that pickle then slip her a tickle
76) Protect your dink then fluff her mink
77) Restrain your lantern then stick it in her cavern
78) Hide ole harry then take her cherry
79) Wrap that spout then bore her out
80) Conceal your train don’t cause her pain
81) Guard your bridge then do her ridge >
82) Shroud your trout then make her shout
83) To make her squat like a turkey, cover your Jerky
84) Box your blister then poke her in the whiskers
85) Wrap your spout to catch the trout
86) Plug your funnel then enter the tunnel
87) Cover your steamer before you ream her
88) Protect that fish then dip it in the dish
89) Contain that bass for a swim in her glass
90) Be sure to wear it to feed her ferret
91) Clothe the boner before you hone her
92) Got no protection? Can’t use your erection!
93) Cork your pump or you don’t hump
94) No unwrapped stags get between my legs
95) Dress that erection to make a deflection
96) Contain that shanker before you spank her
97) Cap that seeder before you breed her
98) Stop the stream before you cream
99) Secure that ladder then drain your bladder
100) Protect your screw to catch that glue
101) Package your meat for a real neat treat
102) Holster your gun then shootings more fun
103) Canvas that trailer before you nail her
104) Garage the tractor then attack her
105) Net that grass hopper before you pop her
106) Sock that wanger before you bang her
107) Pen that rooster, she’ll be much looser
108) Trim your hardwood then do her real good
109) Garnish your oak then give her a poke
110) Pouch your associate then go fornicate
111) Smother your affiliate before you ejaculate
112) Confine your fascinate before it regurgitates
113) Catch that goat before it bloats
114) Ensnare that barbarian then do her abdomen
115) Restrain your hammer then wam bam her
116) Prune that stalk then make her squawk
117) Wrap that rod then please her bod
118) Sheath that knife she ain’t your wife
119) House that bottle then mash her throttle
120) Sash that hash then thrash that gash
121) Cover your diddle then fiddle her middle
122) Can your knob then throb her swab
123) Contain old Doug then clean her rug
124) Cover your limb before you swim
125) Retain your bailer then impail her
126) Rope your dope then make some soap
127) Net your salamander then make salad in her
128) Cap your flapper then sniff her snapper
129) Wrap that Steed then trample her weeds
130) Hat that chef then scramble her cleft
131) Cover your stone before you bone
132) House your hose then curl her toes
133) Saddle your penis then straddle her mean ass
134) Blanket your twitch then hump that bitch
135) Shield your rocks then pond her box
136) Cover old sly then do her dry
137) Wrap your rail then fill her pail
138) Glove your chimney before you come in me
139) If your nude tube your dude
140) Cloak your hitter then go split her
141) Wrap your nipper before you dip her
142) Can your spam then bam that mam
143) Corral your ram then slice her ham
144) Sheath your sliver then jab her liver
145) Twist your wick then stick that prick
146) Cover old Bart then dart her tart
147) Shed old spot then do her slot
148) Drawer your pip then split her lips
149) Contain that leach then mash her peach
150) Bag your elm then take the helm
151) Constrain your gem to catch the flem
152) Catch that head cheese or I won’t spread these
153) Constrain that agate you ain’t no faggot
154) Survey your land then plant her stand
155) Before you drive her protect that diver
156) Sack that slimy smelt then tan her beaver pelt
157) Wrap that stiffer then let him sniff her
158) Cover you post then slice her roast
159) Blanket old juicy then plug old loosey
160) Balloon your baboon the moon tune her poon
161) Contain that viper before you pipe her